Living the single life is great, you can do what you want when you want with no one to answer to. Your house is your own with no one to leave the toilet seat up and wet towels on the floor.
The single life can also be a little lonely. Most of the time it is ok, but there are times when you just want someone to cuddle up to, discuss problems with or just be there when you get home from work.
Another thing that a lot of singles miss is the sex, specifically the big O. While there is more to life than great sex most of us want the end result, an orgasm.
Some health benefits of orgasms.
Orgasms are good for headaches. Yes ladies the age old excuse for not having sex is actually a contradiction. The endorphins released during an orgasm have a massive effect on headaches because headaches are often caused by tension and stress.
The heart rate rises during an orgasm much like during exercise, which has been proven to have numerous health benefits.
Orgasms are good for the soul because the endorphins released during orgasm can give a feeling of euphoria, this is the reason why many people feel happiest after an orgasm, a feeling that can last for quite a while.
But what if you are single?
The good news is that you do not have to be in a relationship to get these benefits. One option is to have a no strings relationship, one where it is just about the sex. This type of relationship is not for everybody, having a booty call has its downside as well as its benefits. There may be health risks if you are not sure that your sexual partner is only having sex with you.
Masturbation is often the answer to the need for an orgasm. The good thing about masturbation is that you are in control, you know exactly what you want, when you want it which often leads to the best orgasms. There are other benefits to masturbation too, regular orgasms have a number of health and emotional benefits.
Getting the best orgasm.
When it comes to orgasms, men and women were not created equally. It is well known that women take much longer to reach orgasm than men do but many men simply do not appreciate this. This is one of the reasons masturbation is great, for both singles and those in a relationship.
The most effective way to achieve orgasm through masturbation is to take your time. Begin slowly and only increase the intensity and pace when it feels right. There is no race involved, in fact the longer it takes the more intense the orgasm is likely to be.
Using sex toys during masturbation will give a different sensation and often heighten the pleasure. Use what feels comfortable for you and make the most of your time alone.
Okay, it is nice to share this with a partner but if that is not an option for you right now then going it alone is better than not at all. Once you have mastered the art of solo masturbation, you can let your future partner know what you need, how you need it and when.