Missionary position, not quite so boring any more.

When it comes to positions for sex, the Missionary position is generally considered to be boring. For some I suppose it could be but there are some benefits to it. The main benefit being an increased sense of intimacy. The nature of the missionary position is such that you can gaze into your partners eyes while you hold them close, add some oil or lubricant to your bodies and the sensual pleasure becomes orgasmic.

The Missionary position is probably the most classic position in the Karma Sutra and involves the guy doing most of the work. In the traditional sense it doesn’t lend itself well to deep penetration but there are several ways to make the missionary position a little (or a lot) less boring and mundane.

Missionary position.
Not so boring any more
  • The CAT (Coital Alignment Technique) gives added stimulation of the clit while he penetrates. By positioning his hips over hers with both partners keeping their legs close together he enters from an above position causing the shaft to rub her clit, add some lubricant for extra sensation. This is also a good position in which to restrain her without the bondage kit, ideal for starting the restraints journey.
  • The Jack Hammer variation of the missionary position is one which gives possibly the deepest penetration. It does require some stamina from the guy and flexibility for the girl and involves raising her legs to change the angle of the vagina to point towards the ceiling. The guy enters in a straight down fashion, slowly as there could be some discomfort if he is a big boy. The guy also needs to make sure that he doesn’t squash his partner with his body weight.
  • Although the missionary position doesn’t allow much movement and participation from the girl, she can be slightly more controlling by wrapping her legs around the guy. By tensing her legs she can have some control over the movement and penetration but guys tend to find this a major turn on and the action could be over quite quickly.
  • Fancy some Tantric Sex? Placing both of her feet against one of his shoulders allows the side wall of the vagina to be stimulated. This can be a new and unusual sensation for her as this is often not achieved. The position can be changed to massage either side wall by changing shoulders but this is not for rampant sex, more of an intimate and slow climb to orgasm.
  • Another variation of the missionary position which is slow and sensual is to have the guy kneel between her legs and lift her bottom half onto him as she guide him in. This position allows her to stimulate her clit during his slow thrusting but also allows him a good view of him entering her. Mirrors can be used in this position to allow the girl to also enjoy the view.

Using props in the bedroom can give a new dimension to your sex life too. I am not talking whips and chains, unless you want to, but cushions under the lower back can help to change the angle of the vagina and give different sensations to both parties while oils and lubricants can increase the sensitivity for the ultimate love making session.

As you can see, the boring old missionary position isn’t quite as boring as it once was. With a little thought and experimentation new orgasmic heights can be reached with him on top.

Written by Emma Pollard.

www.adultretailwriter.co.uk

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